Awesome AA
I am assuming most of the people reading this blog already know that I am an alcoholic and addict who has found recovery through the 12-Step programs. If not, surprise. I have been clean and sober almost a full decade now and I owe that entirely to the fact that I have remained close to the fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous.
If you are one of those Eleventh Tradition purists who would accuse me of breaking my anonymity of the level of press, radio, film (and the internet), you are probably right, but it’s my anonymity and not yours. Plus, how many people will ever read this, or really care?
So with that out of the way, I will talk a little about the recovery community here in Bali (without breaking anyone else’s anonymity).
Just a few days after arriving in Ubud, I found the local 12-Step hangout at a place called the Wahyu Cafe, right in the heart of Ubud. There are meetings of various 12-step groups two to three times per day, every day of the week, although I have primarily been attending the 9 a.m. AA meetings, which attract a fair number of people – both local expats and visitors to the island, who are just passing through.
There are people with all levels of sobriety from the crusty AA old-timers to the raw newcomers to the people who have slipped up after a few years and are finding their way back into the rooms. I have had the pleasure to make friends with a few of them, including a Ukrainian close to my own age, who plans to open a center for veterans when the conflict in his war-torn homeland ceases; a young American woman, who I had the pleasure of sitting next to at her first meeting and have watched blossom in her first month of sobriety; and a few really kind local expatriates who have been keeping the doors of these meetings open for years.
Unbeknownst to me before coming to Bali, the island is the site of a pretty large Founders Day weekend International Roundup convention, which just happened to coincide with my visit. So while many of my friends in recovery back in Ohio were rolling p to Akron for the big convention that draws ten thousand plus attendees, I was with you in spirit among about five hundred fellow alcoholics from all over the globe.
It was definitely a great way to spend the weekend, listening to international speakers and a panel of locals and their visiting friends speak on a variety of different topics.
As an added bonus, the convention was at a ritzy hotel in the beach town of Sanur and we had a Sunday morning yoga class on the ocean, based on the Eleventh Step, followed by a meditation on the same topic. It was really a great way to spend the weekend.
In addition to that, this past Saturday, five of us loaded up in a Toyota mini and rode about thirty kilometers up the mountain to a place where of our local members hosts a monthly Mountain High gratitude meeting. He feeds all the members a wonderful Balinese buffet lunch afterwards.
When sharing on the topic of gratitude that day, I reflected that I was blessed to have found such a “privileged” group of people who I now include in my ever-growing recovery family.